They say don’t live life with “what if’s” but right now I’m having one of those moments. I love my boyfriend dearly, but my parents don’t think he’s right for me. They don’t know how he’s changed. Part of me thinks what if we never broke up and had stayed together…would things still be like they used to be? What if we hadn’t gotten back together, would I be living a normal life? Then there’s always that other guy….my parents would have approved of him 100% and of course after I get back together with my boyfriend he turns up again out of the blue and asks me to go to a formal dance with him. I had to turn him down, it was the right thing to do and I couldn’t do that to my boyfriend. I just feel bad because he’s such a wonderful guy and I had to turn him down. What if I had said yes, what if I hadn’t gotten back together with my boyfriend, would the other guy and I end up dating? I guess you can’t live your life with what if’s. What’s meant to be will be, you just have to let it.